But don’t think that this means we shouldn’t make goals or have dreams — we have to have a destination or motivation in mind in order to care about moving forward.Find a goal you’d like to move toward; put in the effort, and don’t expect any specific outcome. 2 There is a fine line between bravery and Stupidity. he wasn’t !,you meet so few people that are genuinely happy you get apathetic The meeting of him had a major effect on my way of thinking and my life I decided I wanted to be like he was, Happy! "I begin to suspect that all acts of empathy and compassion entail lowering our expectations or standards for what to expect from others.
Thinking that low expectations are purely good or purely bad distracts me. It’s all about expectation Are you the same Anonymous who keeps writing the same spiritual pronouncements?
Some people say that we should set really high expectations or else we won’t have anything to work toward.
So did I get it right that the key is to nibble both sides simultaneously?
For example, I assume (incorrectly) that there's nothing I can't say if I say it right, but don't "kill the messenger" by dismissing what they say if tactlessly worded. The Intrusive, Unwelcome Thoughts of Racism-Themed OCD When we talk about being brave there are two statements I heard. Of course, there are different versions of afraid. I encourage couples to strive for the “good enough” relationship. The word "all" in your sentence invites the reader to find one exception to disprove it as an absolute rule. The Three Types of Sex: How Many Do You Engage In?
So I posed a question to friends on Facebook: "I begin to suspect that all acts of By now I'm convinced that like happiness, compassion is always a function of lowered expectations or standards. The Intrusive, Unwelcome Thoughts of Racism-Themed OCD The word "all" in your sentence invites the reader to find one exception to disprove it as an absolute rule. That’s so much better than what I expected! But if you have low expection doesn't that make you afraid.
I'm used to being left out. I want my expectations to fit my reality.
Life will always question us. I have looked through the recommended article, the stream I'm much interested in, again many questions which I'll put there later - something to be slept with. I'm used to getting the blame. I like the saying "only the paranoid survive." Hence I look for the exceptions to that rule of which there are many, for a simple and obvious example it's not just arrogance to expect leaders not to lie to and kill the people they lead. Through the floor. The very Example said if Child expect anthrax for birthday assuming he knows what is he would be afraid. Fortune favours the Brave.
Still, I would not call it "just arrogance" to expect others to meet my expectations. (I had at that time a negative image of life in general) I could not change the environment in which I was living, but I could change my way of thinking (Being happy doesn`t mean that everything is perfect, It means that you have decided to look beyond the imperfections)I wrote this in my blog , I came across this URL a few days ago,and had to comment on it, as happiness is my blogs theme.Right after the manure bit, there's a typo I figured I'd do well to bring to your attention ("expectaions"): "I recently lowered my expectaions for what I get from a friend who used to annoy me.
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I want to be afraid where it helps and not where it hurts. Into the Shadows: The Psychology of the Undercover World The content of this field is kept private and will not be shown publicly. I have always relied on the kindness of stranger-editors.Interesting. I'd say it's much more effective to say it depends. Which is why I find it hard to motivate myself.So I see two problems - allowing oneself to be controlled, abused etc. I keep low expectations of others and high expectations of myself.I'm used to it. You ignore their content completely. Are they so cheerful because they have high expectations or low ones?